Tuesday, June 9, 2009

It's raining, it's pouring, this kid is snoring

These gray days = the suck. True story.

Tex is a little under the weather this week and I'm fighting off hormonal mood swings, and despite our grumpiness there have been minimal crabbing or other types of fighting in our humble abode.

I really could get used to this domestic nonsense and have even been cooking for us most nights. Before my feminist friends get all up in arms, I'm happy to report that Tex is more than willing to help (offering repeatedly throughout the evening, but I prefer to be the only one in my kitchen, thank you control issues) or to cook (will be taking him up on this offer soon, but am curious as to what he'll produce when not grilling).

Admittedly, this drive to cook for us is taking me by surprise. My mother, without fail, no matter how sick or tired she is, will have a beautiful dinner on the table when my father gets home. I've often regarded this habit with barely concealed scorn--surely a grown man can fend for himself on an odd night or three, right?

But now I'm beginning to understand the pleasure in watching someone you love enjoy something you made with your own hands. And in my mom's case, I think it's a way she shows him her love and appreciation for those 60+ hour-work-weeks he's still pumping out even as he gradually floats closer to 60 years old. That's not to say she doesn't work hard at home while he's at the office, because I know that she definitely and without a doubt does. Seeing her in action gave me a hefty dose of respect for stay-at-home moms (seriously, how the heck does the woman do all that she does and stay sane, raise two kids, and provide dinner every night??).

Food as a gesture and a connection. I can understand that (although she freakin' spoils him some nights, but I guess that's marriage, ha).

Anyways, I'm looking for good recipes/meal ideas if any of ya'll have stuff out there you're willing to share. We're not really red meat eaters, but most anything else is welcome.

Also, any tips for how to get through all these rainy days would be great. I'm falling asleep over here for reals. Happy puddle-jumping.

1 comments:

Samara L. Kuhn said...

We're fans of Kraftfoods.com -- you can search by ingredients if you have something you want to use in particular, as well. I'm fans of quite a few of their recipes, and they are typically easy too! Enjoy